David Cassidy on the Web
'Justin Bieber's got nothing on me!' David Cassidy says today's teen idols don't know the real price of fame
March 25, 2011
By Lina Das
www.dailymail.co.uk
Forty years ago, a 21-year-old David Cassidy pitched up in Italy, with the sole intent of travelling around Europe incognito. He'd just become famous in the States thanks to his role in TV series The Partridge Family, where he played Keith - the eldest son in a fatherless group of musicians who toured America in their psychedelic van - but was as yet unknown throughout most of Europe.
He went sightseeing unrecognised in Rome, Florence and Paris before heading for his final destination, London.
'All I had were my skis, my guitar and my suitcase,' he says. 'It was wonderful because no one knew me and I was living like a gypsy.
Scream Idol: David Cassidy at the height of his fame in 1972
Looking good: David has retained his handsome features
'Then I flew into Heathrow thinking no one would have heard of me, but then this giant roar came up from thousands of kids who were waiting for me. The Partridge Family was showing in the UK, and it turned out I had a big following.
'Police had to escort me everywhere and in the end I was politely asked to leave my hotel because the fans kept singing my songs outside, disturbing the other guests.
Then the BBC complained because the fans swamped the studios when I performed. It was,' he says, grinning happily, 'complete madness.'
It was Cassidy's first taste of Britain and it's still the place that holds some of his fondest memories. To that end, he's giving a special concert at London's Hammersmith Apollo on April 12 - his 61st birthday - 'because it's only appropriate I give back to the British people after all they've given me,' he says. 'I don't really want to tour any more, but I did want to do something special to mark the 40th anniversary of my first visit to Britain.'
Cassidy's relationship with his fans has evolved from the screaming hysteria of the Seventies ('fans tried to take a piece of me home with them and stick it on their wall') to the less hormonal yet still intense adoration that greets him today.
The original: David Cassidy sparked the same hysteria in fans that Justin Bieber provokes now.
He was Justin Bieber before Justin was even a twinkle in Pa Bieber's eye and even though his admirers are now of a certain age, he still has a huge following. While others might have resented the continued attention, Cassidy remains remarkably stoic.
'The fans now are different from before. I have stalkers, and some are old ones and some are new. Some people just don't get reality: that this is my job and something I love to do.'
His wife of 24 years, singer-songwriter Sue Shifrin, suggested I ask about 'the woman in the air conditioning'. 'Oh yeah,' says Cassidy, 'about ten years ago there was this woman from Belgium, around 22 years old, who found her way into our house and slept in the air conditioning duct for six weeks.
'We only discovered her when she took a walk outside in the middle of the night and started screaming when someone tried to abduct her. I paid for her flight back to Belgium, asking her never to return.' Cassidy shudders. 'I mean, that air conditioning looked onto my bathroom, so she was probably watching me the entire time. I can't bear to think about it.'
Set for stardom: David Cassidy's role as Keith in The Partrdige Family catapulted him into the limelight
Up close and very personal: David Cassidy, seen here in 1973, went through women at a phenomenal rate'
As he acknowledges, only a handful of people have ever experienced the noxious levels of fame that he encountered and unlike peers such as Michael Jackson and John Lennon, he survived - though at a price.
Drugs, drink, near-bankruptcy, breakdowns and marital discord have all played a part in his life, yet despite everything he appears to have come through with his humour, marbles and looks largely intact.
He's impressively trim, resolutely youthful-looking (he admits to dyeing his hair, 'as I was silver by my mid-30s') and claims to be free of surgical enhancement aside from an operation decades ago to remove fat from under his eyes.
We're at his home in Fort Lauderdale, Florida - Cassidy relaxing on the sofa, while the family's Bichon Frise, Mickey, dozes on his lap and their parrot Bailey nestles on his chest.
'Our pets have become like children ever since Beau [their 20-year-old son] went to college,' he says. 'I really miss him and it was because of Beau that I stopped touring. I made a commitment to my son that I wouldn't do it and I'm glad that I didn't.'
Dizzying heights of fame: Seen here in 1974, the actor says at the height of his fame he felt incredibly isolated
Obsessed: Cassidy's fans were driven to distraction by the star, who retired at the peak of his fame in 1974
It's telling that the relationships which have most profoundly shaped him have been those he has had with the males of his family. His father Jack Cassidy, the brilliant yet tortured star of stage and screen (including several episodes of detective series Columbo), was a domineering and at times fearsome presence in his son's life and their relationship ultimately affected the manner in which David raised his own son.
Following in her father's footsteps: Katie Cassidy, David's daughter, appears in Gossip Girl, but he has warned her about the perils of fame
'Learning how to be a good parent was easy in the end because I'd basically had the What Not To Do manual,' he says. 'I was very wary of repeating my father's behaviour and did everything not to act like he did. I turned up to all my son's performances and baseball games because my father never did that for me.
'I idolised him so much and all I wanted him to do was put his arm around me and say "God, I'm so proud of you", but the more successful I became, the more he resented it.'
Jack Cassidy lived in the shadow of the success enjoyed by his second wife Shirley Jones. She played David's on-screen mother in The Partridge Family. David's real mother was actress Evelyn Ward, who was Jack's first wife. 'Shirley was an Academy Award winner and America's sweetheart, but while he was a good actor, it wasn't till the end of his career that he had any real kind of recognition and that tormented him.
'He never said I was worthless, but his resentment would come out in these little mean ways. Then when The Partridge Family came along, he said in an interview that I got lucky with my success and that just broke my heart.'
The Partridge Family ran for four years, spawning hit singles such as I Think I Love You and Come On Get Happy and creating total Cassidy mania, with lovelorn teens snapping up David Cassidy lunchboxes, pillowcases and bubblegum.
Cassidy, just another young actor trying to make it in Hollywood, was suddenly a superstar - his concerts smashing box office figures and causing levels of hysteria and even rioting rarely seen before or since.
'But at the height of that fame, I was definitely the most isolated I've ever been,' he says. 'I'd be working seven days a week for most of the year and it never let up. When I got home, I isolated myself, just so I could rest. And because I couldn't go to the bank or shop like normal people, I had a housekeeper who took care of everything.
'That creates a certain immaturity and even though I was 24 by the time the series ended, I was about 19 emotionally. I hadn't lived; I'd devoted myself to the business of David Cassidy, rather than the person.'
Tragic: Bernadette Whelan was 14 when she suffered a heart attack and died after she was crushed at a David Cassidy concert at White City Stadium in 1974
Added to this was the obvious difference between Cassidy and his on-screen alter ego, Keith Partridge. While Keith was sweet, wistful and wholesome, David was experimenting with everything from LSD to heroin and getting through assorted women at a phenomenal rate.
'I was way different to my character, and the fans had no idea?.?.?.' he grins. 'I wasn't ever a bad guy and I was never arrested or anything like that, but I was a wild boy in many respects. Also, I felt very conflicted about who I really was and who I was portrayed to be and that does terrible things to your head.'
After 14-year-old fan Bernadette Whelan died following being crushed at one of his concerts at London's White City, Cassidy, distraught and exhausted, retired from the stage in 1974 at the peak of his fame.
He suffered 'several successive breakdowns', burrowing himself away in his home 'and dulling my existence by drinking'. An attempted rapprochement between David and his father yielded little joy and then in December 1976 Jack Cassidy died in a fire at his home, which had started after he fell asleep holding a lit cigarette.
'I was very sorry I hadn't seen my father for the last months of his life,' says Cassidy, 'but while he was alive, I had such bad experiences with him that I didn't want to know him. He had abandoned my mum and me totally [David's parents divorced when he was three] and so it was hard.
'After he died, I realised he just couldn't cope with his life. Unfortunately he was a manic depressive at a time when the right medication just wasn't available. And he was a raging alcoholic, too, at a time when problems like that were swept under the carpet.'
When I first interviewed David three years ago, he admitted he had been in recovery for a year with a drink problem and last November it appeared to have resurfaced when he was arrested in Florida on a drink-driving charge.
His car had been spotted weaving across the freeway and an open bottle of bourbon was found on the back seat. He was subsequently ordered to pay £300 in fines and attend a 'victim impact panel', which required him to meet people affected by drink-driving accidents.
Waking up the morning after the incident took place, he felt, he says, 'ashamed, embarrassed and lucky that I didn't hurt anyone or myself. It was a significant wake-up call and I thought to myself that this was a real lesson and I'll never do that again.
'It's both enlightening and frightening to see how one second of stupidity can change the course of so many people's lives. I want to do community service and speak to people who've been arrested for drink-driving, because I shudder to think what might have happened. But I'm not making excuses for what I did.
'I could go for many years without drinking a drop at all, but then there would be times in my life when something happened that was really painful and I'd start drinking.
Right after my father's death I spent probably a month being drunk and then I just decided: "No, that's enough."?
'What happened in November was that I'd been to the funeral of a good friend of mine. I'd had a couple of drinks and dropped someone off at the airport who had a bottle of bourbon with him. He couldn't take it through security, so he left it with me. I was lost, weeping and preoccupied, and I was tempted - so a very bad, sad day got a lot worse.'
Though the David Cassidy brand made around half a billion dollars globally, having signed away the rights to his own likeness Cassidy himself pocketed only around £10,000 and was brought to the brink of bankruptcy twice by unscrupulous business managers.
Many might have succumbed to bitterness, but instead Cassidy picked himself up, re-emerging to critical acclaim as a West End and Broadway star in productions of Time and Blood Brothers. With his recent appearance in Celebrity Apprentice alongside Donald Trump in the U.S., he's managing to keep himself in the public eye.
He was married twice before Sue - his first marriage, to actress Kay Lenz, lasted four years; his second, to horse breeder Meryl Tanz, two - but though he once admitted that successful relationships eluded him, his third marriage reaches its 25th anniversary next year.
The couple had enjoyed a brief fling during Cassidy's heyday and got back together during the mid-Eighties, after which they never separated.
'The secret to a long marriage? You have to find someone you respect and someone you can climb a mountain with and you also have to accept that there are going to be parts of that person you may not like, but you still love them. And no, I won't tell you what they are because it'll haunt me for ever!
'I tell you what, though - I've enjoyed long relationships with females who are friends and I've had lots of meaningless flings, too, but I will never understand women,' he says, shaking his head.
One woman he at least partially understands is his 24-year-old daughter Katie, from a brief relationship he had with model Sherry Williams. Currently starring in the TV series Gossip Girl, Katie had little contact with her father growing up, though the two are now close, 'and I'm so proud of her,' says Cassidy.
'When she was 15, her mother got her a recording deal because she was my daughter - and I went insane. This was when Britney Spears was at her peak and every teenage girl wanted to be Britney, but I said to Katie: "Don't do this - you're going to regret it."
'We had many conversations about it and she's thanked me for it since. Now, she's doing something she really loves to do and she's worked hard for it. It's never about the fame and money - it's about doing the work.'
So, what then of all the fans who can't quite get used to the fact that their idol is now in his seventh decade - the feather cut replaced by a sensible hairdo, the cheesecloth having given way to golf shirts.
'Well, it was funny because I was at some event in the late Seventies just after I'd got married and I'd gained about 10lb. Some woman walked by and said "What happened to you? You're so fat!" and I promise you, she didn't even have any teeth! 'I just smiled and said "Yes, we all eventually have to weigh more than 119lb", and moved on. But generally people are very kind and I don't ever get that feeling that I'm disappointing them when they see me. They accept that I'm a father and they accept that I'm a grown-up now,' he says, adding with a twinkle, 'well, I almost am.'
¦ David Cassidy is performing for one night only on April 12, at the hmv Apollo, Hammersmith, at 8pm. For tickets, call hmv ticket line 0843 221 0100, Ticketmaster line 08448 44 47 48 or log on to www.hmvapollo.com
